Behind Female Infidelity: Why Do Some Women Cheat As Much As Men?
A 'Dear Deni' insight from our 'Flirting and Dating' collection
Why Do Women Cheat as Much as Men? The Surprising Research
Research is showing that females “cheat” as much, or more, on their mates as men do. That number of spousal cheaters is apparently in the 70 percentile according to recent research. Ever wonder why?
Well, I figured it out this week. One of those “Aha-Insights” that make you thump your forehead when you realize how perfectly obvious it is… once it finally dawns on you.
Evolutionary Biology: How Female cheating Improves the Gene Pool
We have been told for decades that a man has a better chance of his genes being carried on down the historical gene pool if he successfully inseminates multiple women.
Well, if that reasoning works for men, it certainly works for women too!
Think about it. The women’s genes are also passed along with the babies she produces. So if she produces babies from more than one male (whether her mate knows it or not) her genes, in combination with the various encroaching males’ genes, are often superior to the genes of her spouse. If they ARE superior, then her gene line has been enhanced.
But even if the encroacher’s genes are inferior to her mate’s, the “legitimate baby” she produced with her mate still enhances her chances to pass her genes to succeeding generations. Kind of like having TWO six-shooters in a street gun battle instead of only one.
How “Cheating Genes” Became Dominant in the Female Gene Pool
So here we are in the 2000s. And after millions of years, the most prevalent female genes remaining are from ancestors that “cheated” on their mate. Women who accepted non-spousal genes into her body and produced a non-spousal baby are by far the predominant female gene pool. It appears that “Cheating Genes” are Dominant Genes, and non-cheating genes are recessive.
As the woman’s offspring grew up, passing the predisposition to be promiscuous into the next generation, the more dominant “cheating genes” often made the superior humans in the next generation. Women mated with a good protector, but then enjoyed the males with the more dominant physical traits. Their offspring were then cared for by “Mr. Good Provider” but were genetically, more often than not, biologically from other men.
Why Mother Nature Makes Women Desire Men Who Aren’t Their Partners
So the predisposition to fuck around on your mate is built into us. The biological drive to “fuck around” is obviously more than just sexual urges, even though that may be the apparent trigger. It comes right down to the ones that fuck around have a better chance of having surviving offspring several generations down the gene pool.
Why else would Mother Nature make us women so sexually responsive to males-not-our-mates? In fact, why would Mother Nature make women less and less sexually responsive to their mates as time passes? Yet when she is with a male-not-her-spouse, her libido suddenly springs forth full force again.
The exhilaration of cheating, of accepting non-spousal sperm into our body, is so eternally erotic that we go to great lengths, often at great risk, to participate.
Should Women Embrace Their Genetic Predisposition to Cheat?
So my sexy sisters, should you accept your genetic predisposition and enjoy your sexuality?
It is in your genes! It is in your genes to spread yourself around! It enhances the gene pool!
“Hey baby, come here honey. Your wife is gone for how long? . . . . . . . .. OH GOOD! My husband is gone too! Wow, let’s make beautiful baby music together! Come here honey, put him right inside here! OOOOooh been SO long since I had good sex!”
Giggle
Deni
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