Personal Sex Advice by Deni | Edited by Samarel
Dear Deni
I am 31 yr. old man, wife is also of same age. Problem is I always cum very early after penetrating, and wife takes too long after that. What to do? How can I overcome this problem?
Thanks, and regards,
Krishna
Dear Krishna
You will be delighted with my answers.
You see, most men penetrate their woman too soon in a sexual encounter. Men are usually in far too great a rush to cum, you see. A man sees our body and can’t wait to “stick it in”. Then as soon as it’s in, a male wants to feel his cock fucking our wetness, our tight little sheathe of heavenly pleasures.
In reality, especially with the situation you describe with your wife, you should reverse this strategy, and add a few wonderful little twists and turns on your rode to orgasm. Here is what I suggest for you to try. I think it will do the trick for you.
Seduce her before entering her
Take a great deal of time seducing your wife each and every time you want to make love. Take time to prepare her for her orgasm before you even remove YOUR clothing. Use soft gentle touches. Stroke her back, her face, her neck, her legs, gently and softly, slowly and leisurely.
Talk to her as you do this complimenting her on her sexiness. Tell her how much she turns you on. Work your way from her outer most extremities in toward her breasts and punnai. Lovingly kiss her body in every conceivable place.
Take your time
Show her as you touch her just how much you treasure her body and her mind. As you get closer and closer to her breasts and tummy and pussy, slow your movements, until she is almost writhing in anticipation of you touching and kissing her most sensitive parts.
Once you have taken the time to bring her up to needing your penetration, start kissing and gently suckling her nipples and finger tips and toes. Move your kisses and suckles so that no one spot ever gets quite enough of them. Keep a sharp eye out for what she likes best as you do these things.
Use your mouth and tongue to pleasure her
When you can see that her sexy flower’s petals have begun to open, slowly, lovingly, gently begin to worship her little nubbin of heavenly pleasures within. Use your mouth and tongue to massage her most private place of pleasure. Gently insert your finger into her about an inch and a half and massage the point under the base of her clitoris with the tip of your finger. Massage her there firmly, but not harshly.
Suckle her clit as you continue to massage her G-Spot. A gentle stroke on her perineum (the skin between her vagina and her anus) is also highly pleasurable so long as you lubricate it a bit.
You will remember from what I said above, that you are still dressed! By now, she is most likely fondling your manhood through your clothing, and asking you if you want to take your clothes off. Ask her if that is what SHE wants you to do! Begin to draw her out. Allow her to admit she wants you to join her in her nakedness. This sets her up as a co-conspirator to her own orgasm.
Stroke her body slowly and lovingly
After you have reluctantly removed your clothing, lie beside her and stroke her body slowly and lovingly. When she urges you to penetrate her, go IN slowly. DO NOT withdraw. DO NOT make the normal motions of moving in and out of her.
Instead, firmly move your pubic bone in small slow circles around her clitoral area. Your cock should be inside her as you make your circular contact. The circle you make should be just large enough that her skin moves with yours. Don’t move so much that your pubic hair is abrading her. The idea is to move your hips around just enough that her vaginal lips and your skin massage her clitoris.
This way you are not over stimulating yourself, but you are causing the Maximum stimulation to her most sensitive place. With practice, you will be able to bring her to orgasm over and over and still not cum yourself.
Masturbate before making love
Another way to delay your orgasm is to masturbate yourself to orgasm about an hour before you make love to her. That way you have taken the edge off your own sexual needs, and can then concentrate on her needs for the length of time it takes to bring her up to readiness for her orgasm.
Even then, use the circling technique, not the in and out motions that most men seem to feel they have to make.
Fucking in and out will get you nowhere
Most men do not know that the “fucking motion” of in and out does VERY little for the female. Most women cannot cum from penetration alone. It takes more, and the above processes and motions will make you a legendary lover. One of my lovers can bring me to orgasm over twenty incredible times this way. I am nothing but a smiling plate of limp spaghetti when he is done with me!
So . . .. AFTER she has cum, THEN you can start your “fucking motions” and bring yourself to fruition.
I hope this helps. For sure let us know how it goes!
Deni
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